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Suffering From Fears, Anxiety,
Panic, Phobias, Trauma or Grief?

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Most people who come to this website have a specific problem they want to resolve - and we assume this is the case for you.

So let's get right to the benefits of treatment with us:

Our treatment destroys the connection
between your thoughts & your memories,
and the negative emotion you experience.

So if a specific thought or seeing something in particular triggers a fear, or a phobia, or another unwanted emotion such as deep grief - we destroy the link causing the reaction which means that in the future, when you have the same thought, or you see the same thing, you won't have the same reaction.

Let's take a look at some examples of real-life cases we've treated:

Jo - Spider Phobia & Compulsion To Kill Spiders: Jo had a strong fear of spiders - just thinking about them made her terrified. But when they start running away, Jo's phobia turns into a strong compulsion to hunt them down and kill them. We destroyed the link between the fear and the thought or sight of spider, so Jo didn't have the phobic reaction anymore. Also, we deleted the reaction so when Jo saw a spider run away she no longer had the compulsion to kill them. It was just gone, instantly. In all it took 27 minutes of treatment! At the end of the treatment, Jo said: "Oh, they are so cute and harmless. Just live and let live." A month later, Jo scoops them up and puts them outside, talking to them whilst she does it!

Jo had a complete turn-around during the session, in just 27 minutes. We didn't expose Jo to her fear at all during the session, so she was comfortable and felt safe all the way through. At the end, we showed Jo a spider in a glass jar, and she was completely comfortable, holding her hands out so she could hold the spider herself. That was her own choice, and again she called the spider cute.

Mary - Suffered From Grief for The Loss Of Her Son 5 Years Ago: Mary had something left unsaid to her son - she felt she hadn't told him enough that she loved him, and when he died they had recently argued and fallen out with each other. She would often burst out crying in the middle of the street, especially when she went shopping. We asked Mary to explain how she felt whilst we went through the treatment. After 10 minutes, Mary had come to terms with her loss and she felt much more at peace. Although she was still sad, she was better able to remember the good times instead and walked away feeling like a weight had been removed from her shoulders.

Can you imagine how this has helped Mary? Her grief was never far from the surface; when we started the session the tears came immediately without any prompting. When she walked away she had dry eyes and a smile on her face.

John, a 70 year old man, was very nervous about driving to new places. He didn't have a problem with driving, nor with finding his way - he was anxious as it was a place he hadn't been to before.

John - Suffered From Anxiety When Visiting New Places: John frequently goes to new places to shows to compete with his fine animals. He will shortly be driving somewhere he's never been before to pick up a new friend, then they are going to a show together. This caused John to feel a great deal of anxiety. During the treatment John was asked to explain the feeling he has when he's anxious, and we treated very specific aspects. How he feels when he gets somewhere new, how he thinks about the future event, and how he can tell he's anxious about it. John's anxious feelings completely disappeared during the session, and armed with the method we're confident he will be able to make his next journey without any problems.

How It Works

To function as human beings, we all have strong patterns of behaviour built into us. These patterns are responsible for us being able to function and do the things we do, without us having to consciously think and evaluate everything we do.

Virtually all our patterns of behaviour are learnt. Some animals have very strong instincts passed to them genetically which drives some of their actions. As humans, blessed with conscious thought, a free will and a much more advanced brain, we have very few of these patterns passed on to us. For instance, one of these patterns is an instinct to find milk as a newborn baby.

When you were a baby you couldn't crawl or walk. Then you learned that moving certain muscles made your arms and legs move. Later on, you struggled to your feet, trying to copy others, and you made your first tentative steps before falling down or into the arms of someone.

Today, unless you're disabled, you walk without a thought of how your muscles should move. It's a built-in pattern. It's a template which you use when you need to get from A to B, and which your brain adapts as needed to avoid obstacles in your path.

Your Negative Reactions Are 'Learned Behaviour & Reactions'

It's the same with fears, anxiety, phobias, OCD and much, much more. It's learned behaviour. Jo who we treated for a spider phobia wasn't born fearing spiders - she learned to be fearful, probably at a very young age, due to things that were said to her or because of one or more specific experiences in her past.

Elizabeth, one of our clients, suffers from anorexia. She wasn't born anorexic, but was told from a young age she was too fat (even though she wasn't). Many factors combined, including low self esteem, impossible ideals in the media, and a friend teaching her how to get slimmer, causing full-blown anorexia by the time Elizabeth hit her 20s. This is a very treatable condition - for more information about Elizabeth's case, read our case study here!

Marilyn, another of our clients, suffered from a fear of flying. She used to fly a lot without any problems, but after an experience on the London Underground where she was stuck in a tunnel in the summer heat for several hours, she developed a fear of small, cramped places where she'd be stuck without any chance of escape - a perfect description of a plane trip.

To conquer her fear of flying, all we had to do was treat her negative feelings surrounding her ordeal, a process that was extremely quick requiring only around 5 minutes of treatment.

When we were finished Marilyn said "how silly I was to get so hung up about something so insignificant", and she started looking forward to her next flight!

By the way, we don't think Marilyn was silly at all - this kind of strong emotion is often created in extreme circumstances, and without the right tools to deal with it can often blight your life for a long, long time. It's a natural human learned behaviour and reaction!

Learned Behaviours & Reactions Can Be 'Un-Learned'

There are a few ways to deal with unwanted behaviour and reactions.

We aren't really qualified to comment on most of these, however some of our clients have had different treatments before and they claim nothing has worked as well as the treatment we offer.

But there are some treatments we know enough about to make recommendations:

AVOID THESE THERAPIES:

• Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT): This therapy relies on exposing you to your fear, over and over again, until you become used to it. If you fear spiders it means putting you in contact with spiders, repeatedly, until you aren't scared anymore. We don't recommend this because it take a long time to get used to it, and you have to get scared over and over again before it works.
• Drugs & Medicines: Valium, prozac and beta-blockers are often used for anxiety and depression. They have significant side-effects, and rather treating the problem they suppress the symptoms. When you stop taking the drugs, the problems often resurface. And if you stop taking the drugs suddenly you may experience seizures - or as one doctor described it, maybe you'll "feel jittery and anxious". So the drug is causing the same reaction you want to avoid!

WE RECOMMEND THESE THERAPIES:

• EFT - Emotional Freedom Therapy: The Treatment Of Our Choice!
  Non-invasive, effective, close to 100% success rate, no side effects, long-lasting, easy to self-administer when required, rapid, no needles, no pills, no medicine. And it works on virtually anything connected with your mind where emotions are involved.
• Hypnosis & NLP: Whereas EFT can remove unwanted emotions, hypnosis and NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) are two mind technologies that can help you take your performance and strength to the next level. It can also be combined with EFT to shift long-term, deeply embedded issues much faster than hypnosis or NLP can do on it's own.

Out of all the treatments we are aware of, only a very few treat the core issues rather than the symptoms. Although we don't recommend CBT, it does treat the core issue by repeatedly exposing you to your issue until you become used to it.

But the most effective that we are aware of is EFT, followed by hypnosis and NLP.

Whilst EFT is a short-cut allowing very rapid improvements, hypnosis and NLP can also help you un-learn previous patterns by working on an making changes in your sub-conscious.

(Note: We recommend you continue with any treatment prescribed by medical professionals; do not stop regular medical treatment unless you are advised so by your physician!)

EFT Destroys The Connection Between Specific Thoughts & Emotions

The treatment consists of tapping lightly with your fingers on a series of acupuncture points on your head, face, torso and hands.

The tapping sends a signal to your brain which interrupts or scrambles the link between your thoughts and memories, so the emotional response you experienced before just doesn't happen again.

During the treatment we use several different techniques.

One of these is the Movie Technique - we ask you to run a movie in your head, showing a situation you've been in before when you had the reaction you didn't want, and describe it out loud. For instance, Jo described an incident when she woke up in the middle of the night with a spider crawling on her leg. Marilyn described her experience of being stuck on the underground.

When you start feeling the same reaction as before, before it gets too intense, we start the treatment by tapping on the acupuncture points in sequence. Your emotions should quickly reduce or disappear, and we then ask you to start from the beginning of the story again.

With each iteration you'll feel less and less of the old reaction and emotion, until it's all gone.

This worked very effectively for Jo, Marilyn and many more of our clients.

A Natural Cure

There's nothing magical or mysterious about the treatment. It simply utilises physiological connections between your body and your brain. Your brain, of course, is your control centre and controls every aspect of your emotional state.

Your brain already has the ability to change how you feel about anything.

Let me give you an example. Imagine you meet a new person, and you don't like them immediately. However, after a few minutes you discover you have a hobby in common, and you end up having a really good chat. You then realise you like this person.

Now, your brain already had the mechanism in place to change your emotions.

With phobias, fears, anxiety, OCD, anorexia and many other conditions, the old emotional pattern is so entrenched it's very, very difficult for your brain to change quickly.

But EFT makes that possible. By performing EFT when you have an entrenched pattern of negative emotion, it's like you're jolting your brain into action, making quick changes not just a possibility but a very regular occurrence.

As there's no needles involved, no medicine, no drugs, in fact nothing invasive is used at all, this is as natural a cure as you can get.

We don't use any essential oils or candles as part of the treatment (although we often have some essential oils burning in the background just because we think it's nice and we like it), we don't have any strange incantations or mystical hand movements, there's no magnetic fields involved, nor do we use drum beats or candles.

In fact, we normally don't even touch you during the treatment. Instead we teach you how to apply the technique to yourself. If we treat young children then we ask parents to be present, and we teach parents to do the treatment on their own child.

Treatment Information

Treatment Locations Including Remote Treatments

We can conduct your treatments in your home, or in our private treatment room in Palm Mar.

We can also do treatments over the phone or over the Internet, as long as you are able to follow instructions we send you online.

Session Structure & Charging

We charge on a per session basis. The first session will typically consist of up to 30 minutes of fact finding, followed by up to 45 minutes of treatment.

WINTER 2010 SPECIAL PRICE!

The first session is €25, with follow-up appointments at €30 for each 45 minute session for treatments in Palm Mar only. It's very affordable, especially comparing it to the value of the relief you'll receive as your treatment progresses!

Double sessions are also possible. This can be pre-booked or, where time & availability allows, you can extend treatment at the end of your booked session.

We also provide fixed price options for specific issues, such as weight loss, stop smoking, dealing with phobia and more. Please call 626 44 66 58 for more information.

If you wish to be treated in your own home, we do make an extra charge for to cover our extra time and costs. Details will be provided on request - just call 626 44 66 58.

Success Guarantee!

We wholeheartedly believe in the treatment we offer, and that you will receive rapid emotional relief. For our fixed price packages we guarantee your results. If you don't receive the benefits as agreed, we'll extend one or more follow-up sessions completely free of charge. If this also fails to produce a result we will refund your money.

Your Next Step

You now have 2 options:

1. Request a free, no-obligation telephone consultation, where we can discuss your issue(s) in detail. We'll advice you of a potential treatment plan and you may then make a choice whether to proceed with treatment or not.
2. Request a treatment so you can get your issues resolved as quickly as possible.

Please note: Due to a busy schedule and high demand, we currently only have space for 14 12 more clients. To ensure you can get your issue resolved quickly, please call now!

Please call to ask for more information pack or to book an appointment. If you get the answer phone, please leave a message and we will call back as soon as possible.

Call 626 44 66 58 Now!

Warmest regards,
Steve

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